What l learned from…

The truly crazy Robert over at Middle Zone Musings has a “What I Learned From…” section every month. He invites anyone who wants to – to write on a post on a theme he chooses.

This month it is “What I learned from the world of sport”.

I was about to click away thinking that I have too much to do before I head off for my short but sunny and warm break next week but then I stopped myself.

Let me start by saying that me and participation in sport don’t really go hand in hand. I have given all sorts of things a try in my time but never found one that has stuck with me. Neither do I avidly watch any particular sport. But – if I am going to give up my time it will be to watch – BASKETBALL.

Now – Robert is based in the US where this would not be unusual. Here in Scotland though it is very much a minority sport. So the level of basketball I watch is Under 18 and Under 16 men’s supporting our local club here in Edinburgh. We first got involved with the club when my son played. I have to admit that I really only got roped in when he had been playing for quite a while and my husband said that he might quite like to see his Mum in the crowd . Other players’ Mums went along all the time. So – weighed down with guilt – I went along. Luckily my son played for a team which went through 2 seasons unbeaten – that kind of makes the burden a bit lighter.

After a while though I realised how much I got out of being a supporter. And how much I admired these young men in their dedication to the game. We travelled with them to an international tournament in France and I watched their frustration with the way the game is played  (and referreed) there and how they came back and had a great sporting and cultural experience. I saw them grow up out of the age group and move on – younger players coming up behind to replace them.

The coaches are volunteers. They set high standards on play and behaviour. They are hugely respected by the players.

This is how things should be isn’t it? Pulling together to reach a common goal – or basket. Having respect for each other and opponents. Taking regular exercise. Gaining new skills.

So - what I learned from being involved in youth basketball is that

• with strong leadership the followers will come – and deliver
• that being proud of your own son – and other people’s sons – is quite in order
• that speaking across generations about a common subject eases communication
• that travel – for sport or any other reason – broadens horizons
• that that feeling of belonging – or being part of -  something is really worthwhile
• that being on the winning side feels great!
• that the best learning usually happens when things don’t go to plan