2010 - the year of slowing down?
Posted on January 26th, 2010 in Leadership |
There might just be a movement afoot to get us to slow down in 2010
First there was the worst snow in 30 years over the New Year here in the UK had a huge impact. For a couple of weeks the message from the police was only to make a journey by car if it was absolutely necessary. Now obviously there are many people who have to try to get to work eg emergency service workers but for many of us that decision about “absolutely necessary” might just have shown how many trips by car are “absolutely not”.
Thankfully we have a supermarket nearby ( another big thank you to the delivery drivers who did their best to make sure the shelves were stocked) and it was heartening to see people walking to and from with bags of shopping. Children who may have been driven to school normally were all wrapped up and walking instead. The buses were busier than usual as cars were left at home ( thanks to the bus drivers who kept on going).
Then there has been an upsurge in people talking about leaving social networking behind. Apparently some people’s lives had become so ruled by Facebook etc that they have ditched it all. The strong message from this has to be that social networks should be under your control - and not the other way around. And this applies to e-mail and text too. If you really can’t focus on what your are doing - or the person you are with - because you have this need to check your texts/emails/Facebook/ tweets could it be time to step back and rethink?
And finally this Harvard Business Review post on taking a “creative sabbatical” in which the author says that it is a psychological necessity for us to be “idle” sometimes which allows us to “figure out who we are and what we believe”.
So there you go…slow down - and stop for a while - in 2010 and see where that takes you!
4 Responses
Absolutely agree Jackie. I am continually astonished at my friends, many of whom have busy and productive lives, and yet who have now got sucked into the world of virtual games on Facebook and are running cafes, farms, Mafia gangs…
They get stressed if they can’t get back - to their farm to feed their animals, water their crops… to their cafe to cook the breakfasts…
Clearly they have more addictive personalities than I had imagined. I have turned off their constant updates on their virtual businesses successes and failures and only catch up on what is happening in their real world.
That’s so funny Fiona. A couple of years ago that would have been me but with my DS I incorporate my games into sitting with my family ( still ignoring them of course!!)
The interesting thing that comes out of conversations with anyone who complains that they spend too long on social media generally is that if they had a plan for “good” use and a reward for having acheived it ( a bit like a diet I guess) they could have both and still have time to breathe!
Thanks for the comment…
Could not agree more Jackie. I know many people from Uni who would literally have to check facebook any time they turned on their computers. They would also not do any work as they would have it up in the background, but the background very quickly became the main page! I think you are right they are v.good but with an element of control.
Great to get a view from the - ahem - younger end of my community. Thanks Antonio. The big world out there would have us believe that you guys all follow trends like sheep. You are the proof that that is not the case