Appreciation of old friends

Do you have an old friend who you see occasionally – maybe only once or twice a year if that – but when you do meet them it seems like no time has passed at all? Maybe one of you has moved away, or the opportunities to meet are fewer -or there was maybe a minor dispute which disrupted your friendship. Whatever happened you have no trouble picking up conversations again and laughing about things that have always amused you when you do catch up with each other?

I guess this time of year gives friendships -as well as family – more of a focus.

Today I had lunch with a good friend ( and former boss – God bless his patience) and the time flew. It’s been several months since we last met but catching up was easy.

Why is this?

Well we have a shared history – so there are touch points which mean a lot to us. And with the benefit of hindsight we can reflect on  situations from the past that look differently now. He and I set up a new part of the business together and had some trying but iinteresting experiences in doing so. Much of what I learned then is still a big part of how I do things today. 

However, without care and attention, all friendships- like plants and goldfish –  will wither and die. So I intend to take responsibility for being in touch with my pals. One of my 8 things to do in 08.